After cleaning up my room, I found some notes lying around, one is a text message from a friend way back 2008 (yes, I kind of write down text messages on paper). Guess who it was from:

“Fact is, we can’t live our lives without loving anyone. At some point we fall, but it’s really up to us to choose whether to truly love the person or not. People say love is a gamble, there’s always that risk of getting hurt. But wouldn’t you want to take that risk just to be with that person you love? Anyway, I chose not to love that person. I guess I’m all talk right now.”

- A.L.Chan, 2008

Four years later, we’re still single. Hahaha. My friends give the greatest advice. Hahaha.